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I wrote this last week while on vacation.

I’d just finished reading the chapter on PLACE in “The Right to Write.” I read it three times, in fact, and still didn’t get it, so I won’t be explaining it to anyone else, but I decided to try to write about the place I was at that very moment and see where it took my thoughts.

* * *
I am sitting in an Adirondack chair
perched high on a hill
in deep shade,
gardens below.
Buses in parking lots
being boarded by tour groups,
seniors all.
Having had a good night’s sleep
and a smorgasbord breakfast,
they are setting out.

I, on the other hand,
am settling in,
four days with family,
all but one already here
and that last one
arriving by plane this afternoon.
Done it! Finally after years of trying
a family vacation,
the first since they grew and scattered.
A steady breeze
and a sense of accomplishment.

* * *

Every Thanksgiving and Christmas for the last few years, we would discuss the possibility of a summer gathering, but it never seemed to happen. I think we kept waiting for the perfect place, time, cost, etc. ALL procrastination has perfectionism at its root. Anyway, this year it all came together. When I mentioned our plans to a neighbor she said, “Oh, my family’s been talking about it for years, but we never seem to do it.” I was glad it wasn’t just us.

You’ll notice I haven’t written about where we went and what we did because it really isn’t about that. It’s about the people, gathering….wherever. But those details will likely appear in future posts.

Family Vacation – #1001 in my Gratitude Journal.

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"Within limits, the question 'What if?' can radically change our story and our lives." – Donald Miller

I’m intrigued lately by a little buzz going on in the blogosphere, ignited by Don Miller’s challenge to come up with 5 “What if…?” questions for your life. He calls it The Single Most Powerful Question You Can Ask.

As long-time readers know, I have an aversion to “If only” living, but…… “What if…?” is not the same as “If only….”. The questions are empowering (as opposed to supporting a victim’s mindset the way “if only” does). Think about it.

  • What if I stopped responding in the same old way?
  • What if for once I went with my gut feeling?
  • What if I stopped thinking forgiveness was impossible?
  • What if I acknowledge the validity of his point and stop trying to press mine?
  • What if stop defining myself by that thing?

(examples only – I’ve not made a list yet)

Some empowering possibilities there.
If you care to read where others are going with this, check out Melissa and Cassandra.

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In a semi-related item, for the HCB book club I just finished reading Julia Cameron’s thoughts on the MYTH of “If I had a year off, I’d…..”. She suggests this myth lets us off the hook. We don’t have to listen NOW. We don’t have to take responsibility to be available for what’s bubbling up NOW.

I run the risk of overgeneralizing, I know. Still, I am picking up from so many of the people I care about a great need to BREAK OUT in some way. It’s not just a “Spring” thing. It’s more.

Lost footing.
Lost vision.
Processing that’s been sidelined.
A recipe for collapse.

Listening practice.
Sabbath.
I hope this weekend, you fight to discover or rediscover these.
Something inside craves it.

ESCAPE FROM is a poor substitute for STEPPING INTO.
What if……?

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TechNO

I’m applauding.

One of my girls is taking a TechNo Day. If the beeps and bings and tweets and blog feeds are getting too be just too much, no point in waiting for it to stop. Do it!

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